5 Things One Should Never Do In a Healthy Relationship
Many relationships destroyed due to several mistakes such as misunderstanding, Blaming each other, frustration or lack of trust etc. here are 5 Things One Should Never Do In a Healthy Relationship to avoid breakup.
1. Stop putting in an effort:
One must avoid this because it usually happens when one gets more comfortable with someone – they simply stop putting effort. Actually, your opposite sex are looking for your care and love or you must say, they expect that you should notice them and compliments them, you must put efforts to make them feel that they are your special one, but the lack of all these separates you from them. Never stop giving your efforts, time and thought into birthdays, anniversaries, and romantic dates. Relationships need efforts and love, so even if just one person stops trying, it will inevitably crash and burn.
2. Compare them :
Many of the time it happens that you’ve been in relationships before, been in love before, fucked tons of people before, but you must never ever compare that person right in front of you with anyone else near your loved ones. Never ever compare your girlfriend to some well figured hot chick or your boyfriend to the good physique guy. No one likes to feel like they’re in competition with someone they don’t even know. Although you were not meaning it and you will not come to know that they felt bad about themselves and then they will resent you for it.
3. Never blame them if you get frustrated or angry at them :
Whenever you starts blaming them, just for the reason that you are angry, it means that there is something triggering inside of YOU. That might be YOUR emotions and responsibility. Whenever you feel like that those feelings are dominating you, take the time to get present and to look within and understand what it is going on, inside YOU, that is asking to be healed. And you must keep it in mind that You were attracted to your partner because he/she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… so when you will rebuild yourself, you will no longer be sparked by them, and So you must keep it in your mind to make your relationship healthier..
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4. Never bring back the past :
These are the main reasons behind the misunderstanding and gap being formed in any strong relationship. If you want to move forward, you need to look forward. Bringing up a fight you’ve had a year ago, or something the person did will only bring up negative feelings and hurt them. We know forgiving doesn’t necessarily mean forgetting, but it will always pinch you in the back of your memory in a folder titled “resolved issues”. So to get in a relationship for whole life with that person, you must probably get over it.
5. Always see the best in your partner :
This is what we can say the most important factor which we must follow to maintain our healthy relationship longer. You must concentrate only on what you love about your partner. What you focus on will expand. If you will concentrate on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can live long peacefully with your love. Concentrate only to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and believe me you will be the luckiest person on the earth who can proudly say to have the healthiest relationship with your partner.